A safer, faith-centered space for meaningful connection.

Community standards

Not allowed on GraceMeet

To keep GraceMeet safe and respectful, the following behavior may lead to content removal, account restrictions, or account termination. This list is grouped by category for clarity but is not exhaustive — see the operator discretion clause at the end of this section.

Identity, honesty, and trust

• Fake profiles, impersonation, catfishing, or misleading identity
• Misrepresenting your relationship status — if you are currently married, in a committed relationship, or otherwise unavailable, you must disclose this in your profile
• AI-generated or heavily manipulated profile photos (Stable Diffusion, Midjourney, DALL-E, face swaps, deepfakes, or filters that materially misrepresent your appearance)
• Photos that are not recent (older than 2 years) or that misrepresent your current appearance
• Multiple accounts, account sharing, account selling or transfer, or attempting to evade a ban by creating a new account
• Concealing safety-relevant criminal history, including registration on a sex offender registry, or convictions for violent or sexual crimes against persons

Harassment, safety, and harm

• Harassment, bullying, threats, or intimidation — on or off the platform
• Hate speech or attacks based on faith, race, ethnicity, nationality, gender, disability, or other personal traits
• Body shaming, age shaming, or derogatory comments about appearance, weight, height, profession, education, denomination, income, or family status
• Stalking, doxing, or publishing another member's address, employer, school, or family information
• Non-consensual intimate imagery (NCII) — sharing, threatening to share, or possessing intimate images of any person without their explicit, ongoing consent
• Sextortion or any threat to release private content for money, sexual acts, or any other purpose
• Drug use, drug paraphernalia, or drug dealing in profile content or messages
• Firearms or weapons in profile photos (except clearly professional contexts such as uniformed military service)
• Glorification of violence, gangs, criminal lifestyle, or terrorism
• Off-platform misconduct against another member — stalking, harassment, NCII distribution on other platforms, or coordinated harassment campaigns involving other apps or social media
• Repeated unwanted contact after someone has declined, blocked you, or stopped responding

Sexual content and commercial sexual services

• Sexual, explicit, or pornographic content of any kind in profile photos, bios, or messages
• Unwanted sexual messages, solicitation, or pressure
• Commercial sexual services — prostitution, escort services, sugar dating arrangements, or any paid sexual activity
• Promotion of OnlyFans, adult content platforms, or paid adult subscription services
• Sex trafficking or trafficking-related content — reported to authorities under FOSTA-SESTA (18 U.S.C. § 2421A)

Scams, fraud, and commercial misuse

• Romance scams — requesting money, gift cards, wire transfers, cryptocurrency, or financial assistance from matches
• "Pig butchering" or steering matches into investment, crypto trading, forex, or get-rich-quick schemes
• Marriage-for-visa fraud or other transactional relationship offers
• Catfishing patterns using stolen photos for emotional manipulation
• Spam, phishing, suspicious links, or malware distribution
• MLM recruitment, business networking, religious organization recruitment, fundraising, or any commercial activity directed at other members
• Selling products or services through your profile or messages

Minors and vulnerable persons

• Underage use of GraceMeet (under 18) or assisting a minor to use the App
• Any attempt to contact, groom, or solicit a minor
• Including children — your own or others — in profile photos
• Exploitation or targeting of vulnerable adults (elderly, cognitively impaired, recently bereaved)

Faith context

• Disrespecting another member's denomination, church background, or personal faith journey
• Recruitment into cults, fringe groups, or destructive religious organizations
• Pressuring matches to convert, change denomination, or adopt specific religious practices as a condition of dating
• Promotion of violent or extremist religious ideologies
• Using faith as a manipulation tactic (e.g., claiming divine instruction to override another member's consent, autonomy, or decisions)

Privacy

• Sharing another person's private information, screenshots, photos, conversations, or contact details without their permission
• Recording or publishing private conversations or video calls without consent

Technical and service abuse

• Scraping profile data, photos, or messages
• Reverse engineering the App, its APIs, or its security systems
• Using bots, scripts, or automation to interact with the service
• Exploiting bugs or vulnerabilities — responsible disclosure to support@gracemeet.com
• Attempting to bypass age verification, photo verification, or moderation systems
• Using VPNs or modified devices to evade account restrictions or country restrictions
• Submitting false reports to harass other members or manipulate matching

Operator discretion

This list is not exhaustive. We may, in our sole and reasonable discretion, restrict or terminate accounts for any behavior that — in our reasonable opinion — conflicts with the spirit of GraceMeet, harms other members, undermines the safety or integrity of our service, or risks our compliance with platform policies (Apple App Store, Google Play) or applicable law. Behavior that technically complies with stated rules but acts against the spirit of a respectful, faith-centered community may still result in account action.